Fertility Update Bullshit

So friend #1 is pregnant!!!!!! And it might be twins. I am so happy and only wish I was closer to her to support her thru the horrid "1st trimester". Friend #2 finally had her bloodwork done and she is not with child. Total.fucking.bullshit. What do you say to that? "Sorry"? That doesn't quite cut it. Yet another friend had a miscarriage last week. Has there always been this much loss? Or was I ignorant to it? I want to scream and cry for it all. What the fuck? Is there anything we can do? Say? If you are reading this you know who you are. Please know I love you.